You’ve been doing everything you can for them.Now let’s talk about YOU.
I’m Lori. I’ve been that mom.
I’ve spent years trying to find answers and help for my children. And I learned something I wish I’d understood sooner.
The best way to help your children is to heal your own shit.
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
You’re doing
everything you can.
And you’re exhausted.
The appointments. The school meetings. The phone calls. The endless searching for answers.
You’ve advocated, researched, asked questions, and tried to find someone who can help.
You just want your child to be happy.
And when something isn’t working, you keep looking for the next answer. Because what else are you supposed to do?
I know. I’ve been that mom.
I raised three boys. I’ve sat in those meetings, searched for answers, and wondered what else I could possibly do to help.
But here’s something I wish I’d understood sooner.
In the middle of trying so hard to help my children, I wasn’t paying attention to how I was showing up for them.
My fear. My reactions. The patterns I didn’t even realize I was repeating.
I was so focused on what was happening with them that I wasn’t looking at what was happening within me.
And that’s where my own work needed to begin.
HERE'S WHAT I KNOW NOW
The work starts with YOU.
You can love your children fiercely and still have patterns that affect how you show up for them.
You can have the best intentions and still need to take responsibility for your reactions.
You cannot do someone else’s healing work. But you can do your own.
When you change how you show up, you change what you bring into your relationships.
You are the problem AND YOU are the solution.
Not because everything is your fault.
Because your own patterns, reactions, and choices are where you have the power to create change.
HEY, I'M LORI
I went first.
I came back with notes.
I spent years doing everything I could to help my children. Searching for answers, navigating broken systems, and trying to make things better.
What I didn't recognize at the time was how my own experiences, unresolved baggage, and automatic reactions were affecting the way I showed up for them.
I loved my boys fiercely. But loving them didn't mean I always got it right.
I've made mistakes. Big ones. Things I wish I could go back and do differently.
I can't change the past. But I can share what I've learned.
I'm not here to tell you how to raise your children or pretend I have all the answers.
I'm the person who went first and came back with notes.
INSIDE HEY LORI
See Your Shit. Heal Your Shit. Own Your Shit.
Awareness. Healing. Self-Leadership.
AWARENESS
See Your Shit.
The stories you've been telling yourself. The beliefs you've been carrying. The patterns and automatic reactions you don't even realize are running your life.
You can't change what you don't recognize.
HEALING
Heal Your Shit.
Understanding where those patterns came from and doing the inner work to change how you respond.
Not because you're broken or need fixing. Because what you've learned doesn't have to be what you keep repeating.
SELF-LEADERSHIP
Own Your Shit.
Taking responsibility for your own healing, reactions, and choices.
You cannot control someone else's journey. But you can choose how you show up in your own life and for the people you love.
The work starts with YOU.
You don't get to choose everything life hands you. But you do get to choose what you do with it.
COME HANG OUT
Let's stay connected.
Real conversations. Real life. No judgment.
I'm sharing what I'm learning, the conversations worth having, and the things I wish I'd understood sooner.
Some days it's about motherhood. Some days it's about healing, grief, or the patterns we don't even realize we're repeating.
No perfect answers. No pretending I have it all figured out.
Just honest conversations and a little more awareness along the way.
No daily emails. No unnecessary noise. Just the good stuff.